Thursday, December 15, 2011

Personal Development

Vitamins for the Mind
by Jim Rohn
Personal Development

To attract attractive people, you must be attractive. To attract powerful people, you must be powerful. To attract committed people, you must be committed. Instead of going to work on them, go to work on yourself. If you become, you can attract.

We can have more than we've got because we can become more than we are.

The big challenge is to become all that you have the possibility of becoming. You cannot believe what it does to the human spirit to maximize your human potential and stretch yourself to the limit.

Pity the man who inherits a million dollars and who isn't a millionaire. Here's what would be pitiful: If your income grew and you didn't.

The most important question to ask on the job is not "What am I getting?" The most important question to ask on the job is "What am I becoming?"

It is hard to keep that which has not been obtained through personal development.

After you become a millionaire, you can give all of your money away because what's important is not the million dollars; what's important is the person you have become in the process of becoming a millionaire.

Income seldom exceeds personal development.

What you become directly influences what you get.

"Vitamins for the Mind" is a weekly sampling of original quotes on a specific topic taken from The Treasury of Quotes by Jim Rohn. The burgundy hardbound book with gold-foil lettering is a collection of more than 365 quotes on 60 topics gathered from Jim's personal journals, seminars and books and spanning more than 40 years. Click here to order The Treasury of Quotes.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Tebow or Rodgers: Football & Faith

Madetomatter Devotional & Update
 December 8, 2011

Tebow or Rodgers: Football & Faith
by Randy Kilgore
 
     Tim Tebow isn't supposed to be winning games in the National Football League, experts keep telling anyone who will listen. Tebow was wildly successful as a college quarterback, helping his team to two national championships and winning the coveted Heisman Trophy and Maxwell Trophy awards. So when the Denver Broncos drafted him last year, the sports world watched with more than mild curiosity to see how it might work out.
 
     My, how it's worked-at least this far: The Broncos are 6-1 with Tebow at quarterback and have moved from last place to first place with him at the QB slot. What's exciting, too, is the world that knows Tebow can play football also knows he loves Jesus Christ, because he takes every opportunity to express that love publicly.
 
     Therein lies the rub for many, though.
 
     Should Tebow keep quiet about his faith? Fellow quarterback Aaron Rodgers (of the Super Bowl champion Green Bay Packers) thinks so, quoting St. Francis of Assissi on his ESPN radio show in Milwaukee, as quoted by CNN/Sports Illustrated columnist Peter King** (see Bold point 9 on page 5). Rodgers and Tebow are both men of faith, and they represent the two sides of an argument Christians who work have been debating for decades, if not centuries. Rogers quotes St. Francis of Assissi, who is reported to have said: "Preach the Gospel always; if necessary, use words." Rogers then goes on to suggest that he wants his personal life and behavior to cause people to ask questions about his faith, and then he feels like it's appropriate to share his beliefs.
Tebow, on the other hand, candidly and tirelessly tells reporter after reporter the same thing: He is so over-the-top grateful for His Savior that he can't help but express his love for Him at every opportunity.
 
     So who's right?
 
     Well, in most cases, Scripture would argue for Tebow's actions, though clearly there are times when God says to be silent, and there are people whom God tells to witness silently, so only Aaron Rodgers is in a position to judge Aaron Rodgers' decision.
 
     Here's why we say that:
(1) When Christians quote St. Francis, we imply (unintentionally) that Christians are living better, holier, cleaner or nobler lives than those who aren't Christians. As a workplace chaplain, I often hear from people of other faiths-and no faith-who are offended by this idea.
(2) Our lives are to be lived as ambassadors of the Savior, to be sure, meaning we should be attempting to live obedient to God's Word. However, at the end of the day we want people to be looking to Christ as an example to emulate, and not ourselves. Moral lives do make people think of faith, and in a Christian society the default faith they think of is Christianity, so there is some truth to the idea that a pointing to Christ occurs when we seek to live more obedient lives. However, Scripture teaches we are never good enough to merit salvation, and we're also never good enough to keep it. That's why it's called grace-unmerited favor bestowed on us by a loving Savior.
(3) Jesus reminds us that if our motive for silence is embarrassment or shame, then He will be ashamed to acknowledge us as He sits at the right hand of the Father advocating for His children. (Luke 9:26) In other words, we should be publicly professing our love for Him.
(4) In Scripture after Scripture, God instructs His children to spread the good news of the love of God and the grace made possible by Jesus Christ. In fact, the feeling one gets is that talking about God should permeate our existence, as in Deuteronomy 6:4-8; Acts 1:8, and Matthew 28:19-20.
(5) Imagine passing a city ordinance in Boston making it illegal to talk about the Boston Red Sox (insert your favorite city and sports team here) at work. Boston is so passionate about baseball and their beloved Red Sox, they cannot help but talk about them on the job. For those of us who have experienced grace, our hearts should be exploding at the chance to express our passion, which is precisely how Tim Tebow has always described his own desire to talk about God.
(6) Plus, for those who believe in a literal Hell (as we here at Madetomatter believe Scripture teaches), there's yet another reason for public and frequent proclamation: Love. We believe our friends and loved ones are headed to a place so terrible that we are being disloyal and unloving (in our hearts) if we're not taking every reasonable and respectful opportunity to point out the danger and the detour around it.
So Tim Tebow is entirely within the realms of appropriate behavior and Scriptural commands when he shares his faith in the ways he has so far; and Christians everywhere should be praying for and encouraging him in those efforts.
 
     As for Aaron Rodgers, it sounds like he's carefully considered what God wants from him, and we would never presume to second-guess him. Or St. Francis, who actually means by his words this truth: Make sure your deeds are consistent with your words; and that your words are consistent with your deeds.
 
     Something we should all remember.
 
--Randy Kilgore
Randy@madetomatter.org
www.madetomatter.org
 
**King goes out of his way to give his readers enough information to fairly judge individuals and actions he reports on; and generally avoids the 'piling on' that occurs when somebody stumbles. For example, while it appears King supports Rodgers' opinion on faith and football, his comments on Tebow in the first page of the same article are carefully chosen words aimed at painting Tebow respectfully and without caricature.
 
For more on this topic, including times Christians shouldn't talk about God at work, see here.
 
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Tebow or Rodgers: Football & Faith
by Randy Kilgore
 
     Tim Tebow isn't supposed to be winning games in the National Football League, experts keep telling anyone who will listen. Tebow was wildly successful as a college quarterback, helping his team to two national championships and winning the coveted Heisman Trophy and Maxwell Trophy awards. So when the Denver Broncos drafted him last year, the sports world watched with more than mild curiosity to see how it might work out.
 
     My, how it's worked-at least this far: The Broncos are 6-1 with Tebow at quarterback and have moved from last place to first place with him at the QB slot. What's exciting, too, is the world that knows Tebow can play football also knows he loves Jesus Christ, because he takes every opportunity to express that love publicly.
 
     Therein lies the rub for many, though.
 
     Should Tebow keep quiet about his faith? Fellow quarterback Aaron Rodgers (of the Super Bowl champion Green Bay Packers) thinks so, quoting St. Francis of Assissi on his ESPN radio show in Milwaukee, as quoted by CNN/Sports Illustrated columnist Peter King** (see Bold point 9 on page 5). Rodgers and Tebow are both men of faith, and they represent the two sides of an argument Christians who work have been debating for decades, if not centuries. Rogers quotes St. Francis of Assissi, who is reported to have said: "Preach the Gospel always; if necessary, use words." Rogers then goes on to suggest that he wants his personal life and behavior to cause people to ask questions about his faith, and then he feels like it's appropriate to share his beliefs.
Tebow, on the other hand, candidly and tirelessly tells reporter after reporter the same thing: He is so over-the-top grateful for His Savior that he can't help but express his love for Him at every opportunity.
 
     So who's right?
 
     Well, in most cases, Scripture would argue for Tebow's actions, though clearly there are times when God says to be silent, and there are people whom God tells to witness silently, so only Aaron Rodgers is in a position to judge Aaron Rodgers' decision.
 
     Here's why we say that:
(1) When Christians quote St. Francis, we imply (unintentionally) that Christians are living better, holier, cleaner or nobler lives than those who aren't Christians. As a workplace chaplain, I often hear from people of other faiths-and no faith-who are offended by this idea.
(2) Our lives are to be lived as ambassadors of the Savior, to be sure, meaning we should be attempting to live obedient to God's Word. However, at the end of the day we want people to be looking to Christ as an example to emulate, and not ourselves. Moral lives do make people think of faith, and in a Christian society the default faith they think of is Christianity, so there is some truth to the idea that a pointing to Christ occurs when we seek to live more obedient lives. However, Scripture teaches we are never good enough to merit salvation, and we're also never good enough to keep it. That's why it's called grace-unmerited favor bestowed on us by a loving Savior.
(3) Jesus reminds us that if our motive for silence is embarrassment or shame, then He will be ashamed to acknowledge us as He sits at the right hand of the Father advocating for His children. (Luke 9:26) In other words, we should be publicly professing our love for Him.
(4) In Scripture after Scripture, God instructs His children to spread the good news of the love of God and the grace made possible by Jesus Christ. In fact, the feeling one gets is that talking about God should permeate our existence, as in Deuteronomy 6:4-8; Acts 1:8, and Matthew 28:19-20.
(5) Imagine passing a city ordinance in Boston making it illegal to talk about the Boston Red Sox (insert your favorite city and sports team here) at work. Boston is so passionate about baseball and their beloved Red Sox, they cannot help but talk about them on the job. For those of us who have experienced grace, our hearts should be exploding at the chance to express our passion, which is precisely how Tim Tebow has always described his own desire to talk about God.
(6) Plus, for those who believe in a literal Hell (as we here at Madetomatter believe Scripture teaches), there's yet another reason for public and frequent proclamation: Love. We believe our friends and loved ones are headed to a place so terrible that we are being disloyal and unloving (in our hearts) if we're not taking every reasonable and respectful opportunity to point out the danger and the detour around it.
So Tim Tebow is entirely within the realms of appropriate behavior and Scriptural commands when he shares his faith in the ways he has so far; and Christians everywhere should be praying for and encouraging him in those efforts.
 
     As for Aaron Rodgers, it sounds like he's carefully considered what God wants from him, and we would never presume to second-guess him. Or St. Francis, who actually means by his words this truth: Make sure your deeds are consistent with your words; and that your words are consistent with your deeds.
 
     Something we should all remember.
 
--Randy Kilgore
Randy@madetomatter.org
www.madetomatter.org
 
**King goes out of his way to give his readers enough information to fairly judge individuals and actions he reports on; and generally avoids the 'piling on' that occurs when somebody stumbles. For example, while it appears King supports Rodgers' opinion on faith and football, his comments on Tebow in the first page of the same article are carefully chosen words aimed at painting Tebow respectfully and without caricature.
 
For more on this topic, including times Christians shouldn't talk about God at work, see here.
 
Want to comment on this week's devotion, or ask questions of our chaplain and senior writer, Randy Kilgore ? Click here and scroll down to the comments form at the bottom of the page.

Arthur Murray Was A Wallflower?

Arthur Murray is the most successful dance instructor in history.

But he didn't start out confident or smooth.

As a child Murray was shy and self-conscious about his tall, lanky appearance.

He wanted to be part of the social activities his friends enjoyed, especially the dances, but he was afraid to approach girls.

At 14, Joe Feigenbaum, a friend who was popular with girls, taught Arthur his first dance steps. 

To get practice, Murray attended weddings where he found willing dance partners of every size and age. 

Later he attended dance schools, teaching new crazes as the bunny hug, grizzly bear, and the one-step.

There are now hundreds of Arthur Murray studios globally, with specially trained instructors.

I love Murray's story for two reasons.

First, Murray lived by his values.

Friendship.

Fun.

Love.

Murray was painfully shy, but he didn't let that get in the way of what he prized most.

A lot of people want to overcome fears that are holding them back. 

The problem is, they haven't clarified their values.

They don't know what really matters to them.

They don't know what they really stand for - what they live for, and what they would die for.

When the fear rises up, they don't have something strong to counteract it.

So they make bad decisions.

They do nothing or they act impulsively.

Second, Murray asked for help.

He went to someone he admired and became a student.

Now this is REALLY rare.

Most people would rather be boiled alive in oil than approach a successful person and ask for help.

Yet here's the strange thing.

If someone approaches YOU for help, how do you feel about him?

Good or bad?

My guess is good.

Most people love to help others.

Now here's the irony.

Most people don't ask for help because they want to appear on-the-ball. "I've got this handled."

My friend, I've got news for you.

You're not fooling anyone.

The people in your life know about your problem.

Whether you're struggling with money, relationships, or career, the people around you know this.

That's why you're better off putting your energy into solving your problem - not covering it up.

And that means asking for help.

A great place to start is my Secrets of Deep Mental Toughness Audio Program.

You learn how to stop selling yourself short and under-estimating your talents...how to stop second-guessing your ideas...and how to overcome performance anxiety to perform well.

The best part is the format.

You don't have to WORK to achieve Deep Mental Toughness.

All you have to do is unleash is using the power of your mind.

That's why I made these audios for you.

All you have to do is hit Play.

Go here:

http://www.thecouragetowin.com/deepmentaltoughness.html

Your friend,
Lisa B.
 

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Who’s Coaching You On Your Path To Success?

Who’s Coaching You On Your Path To Success? Written by Jack Canfield | Wednesday, 11 May 2011 00:00 You would never expect an athlete to reach the Olympic Games without a world-class coach. Nor would you expect a professional football team to enter the stadium without a whole team of coaches; head coach, offensive coach, defensive coach, and a special teams coach. Yet, many people believe that they can achieve their goals and new levels of success without any outside support or assistance. If you fall into the category of people who believe that a coach is “good for some people, but not right for me,” I urge you to challenge this belief. Because of all the things successful people do to accelerate their trip down the path to success, securing the services of a coach is at the top of the list. A coach helps you clarify your vision and goals, supports you through your fears, keeps you focused, confronts your unconscious behaviors and old patterns, expects you to do your best, helps you live by your values, shows you how to earn more while working less, and keeps you focused on your core genius. The best part? Today, coaches are available to support you in achieving nearly every professional or personal goal, whether growing your business, losing weight or simply achieving the balance life you crave. Worth More Than Money Throughout my career, I have had many coaches who have helped me achieve my goals: business coaches, writing coaches, marketing coaches, and personal coaches. The results have been tremendous. First and foremost, I immediately doubled my free time. I delegated more tasks, scheduled vacations rather than merely thought about them, and hired additional staff that ultimately positioned my business to earn more. And that was just in the first few months. Not only did my business benefit, but my family did as well. For me, coaching wasn’t just about making more money. It was about helping me make better decisions for myself and my business. The truth is, most coaching clients are very smart. Yet they still know the value of accessing someone who can be objective, honest, and constructive about the options they are facing. Why Coaching Works Regardless of whether the program is designed to achieve a specific business goal (say, increasing your real estate listings) or whether it’s set up to help you simply gain more clarity and progress in all areas of your personal and professional life, a coach can help you with the following: • Determine your values, vision, mission, purpose and goals • Determine specific action steps to help you achieve those goals • Help you sort through opportunities • Keep you focused on your top priorities • Achieve balance in your life while still accomplishing your business or career goals Different Formats for Coaching Coaching can be delivered privately or in groups. Most often, it’s done through regularly scheduled telephone contact, although it can also be done in person. Over the course of the sessions, you’ll work together with your coach to develop goals, strategies, and a plan of action that is positive, desirable, and realistic. Support is often provided between sessions through e-mail and other media. Other coaches – typically those who are more established in a certain industry – help many clients at one time via group-coaching programs. This format allows you to tap into the energy of a group and learn from the experiences and challenges of other group members. These programs often feature structured large-group teleconferences in which you listen to valuable information, and then implement what you hear on your own. Some coaches will work with you every week and others once a month. Still another form of group coaching are experiential seminars. These types of events go far beyond a simple lecture and PowerPoint presentation. Instead, they get you out of your seat to participate in hands-on transformational activities, such as small-group exercises, processing and sharing. You do the work you would normally do one-on-one with a coach, but instead you are among dozens or even hundreds of others engaged in the same activities. My company offers all three types of coaching. Because I can make a bigger impact when working with many students at one time, I lead group coaching in the form of my Platinum Group, a small-group yearlong program, and a 7-day large-group program called Breakthrough to Success, where I lead participants through dozens of life-changing exercises and processes. But if you prefer one-on-one work, youcan opt to work with one of my highly trained coaches. How to Find a Coach There are literally thousands of coaches available to work with you. There are personal coaches, life coaches, and business coaches. Some are industry specific (dental, chiropractic, real estate, and speaking), some are job specific (executive coaches), and some are interest specific (strategic planning, health and wellness, finances, and career transition). You can find them on the Internet, in the phone book, and by asking around. There are organizations like Coach U and the International Coach Federation that can help you find a coach near you. In my experience, the reason many of us are not living up to our fullest potential lies in the gap between knowing and doing. Often, we attempt to close that gap with the New Year’s Resolution only to find ourselves back where we started come February or March. If you want to achieve more, find a coach to challenge you to do more and be more.

Thursday, December 08, 2011

No matter where you are in life

No matter where you are in life right now, no matter who you are, no matter how old you are – it is never too late to be who you are meant to be. ~Esther & Jerry Hicks

In life, as in football ...

In life, as in football, you won’t go far unless you know where the goalposts are. ~Arnold H. Glasgow

The only reason....

The only reason we don’t have what we want in life is the reasons we create why we can’t have them. ~Tony Robbins